I am having a little trouble with a girl

there is this girl who is one of my really good friends. She was at the sweet 16 for the one girl that i wondered why she invited me (if you read that topic i made a while back). anyway, i guess we were like really flirty with each other at the party like we grinded for not even half a song and she pinched my butt like 3 times and slowed danced a little bit at the end that's it. anyway i found out through a mutual friend that she likes me. i kind of like her and it turns out she was my first girlfriend from like 6th grade so it really doesn't count.
i am probably going to tell her it wouldn't work because 1. we only see eachother at lunchfor 40 minutes 2. i am a very flirty person in general and my one old girlfriend didn't really know that when i went out with her and it made her upset 3. i am not really looking for a relationship right now because (yes i figured this out on my own) i am too immature to be in a relationship.
the reason i posted this was to see if you all agree with my decision. don't hold back, if you want to be really critical i won't get upset.

Do you want to get laid? doesn't sound like it... ROFL I was jk but ya why not go for it man, just tell her your flirty but not to get jealous because you love/like her and not to worry or something like that, and just conceal your immaturity...

i wouldn't get laid anyway. she has vowed to wait until marriage. i don't know why but she is serious.

i know many girls that have said that its not always true

no she is dead serious. i should know as i said she is one of my good friends

well that could mean alot but my gf said the same thing but i wont go any farther

true dat holmes

Champ2788 wrote:

there is this girl who is one of my really good friends. She was at the sweet 16 for the one girl that i wondered why she invited me (if you read that topic i made a while back). anyway, i guess we were like really flirty with each other at the party like we grinded for not even half a song and she pinched my butt like 3 times and slowed danced a little bit at the end that's it. anyway i found out through a mutual friend that she likes me. i kind of like her and it turns out she was my first girlfriend from like 6th grade so it really doesn't count.
i am probably going to tell her it wouldn't work because 1. we only see eachother at lunchfor 40 minutes 2. i am a very flirty person in general and my one old girlfriend didn't really know that when i went out with her and it made her upset 3. i am not really looking for a relationship right now because (yes i figured this out on my own) i am too immature to be in a relationship.
the reason i posted this was to see if you all agree with my decision. don't hold back, if you want to be really critical i won't get upset.

Alot of girls pinches my butt, but it dosn't mean annything. You sure have high thought about yourself mate.
Don't be so paranoid and think that everyone likes you only becuase they fool a little around.
I mean Suck it up dude

drake_fake44 wrote:

i know many girls that have said that its not always true

lmao hell ya thts tru they say they want 2 2 make u want them more

hey SexyDemon, if you actually read the message i said that a mutual friend told me that she likes me. i am not mad just please read more carefully before criticizing me.

(band aids for everyones cuts)

why dont you get to know her better cuz it could be a lustful mcrush meaning that everyones horny and not thinking straight.
yup.
SO get to know her better and then decide from that stage whether you really like her or not and who cares if your too immature you never learn if you think that way. if your flirty somewhere there is a girl who doesnt care..... like me and my bf.... lol
most girls say they will wait so they dont look like hoochies btw......
xoxoxoxx

LOL Wait till marriage! WHAT A JOKE!! ROFL jk anyways well in that case do whatever you want. Also I've found if you like someone and you know they like you and vise versa then it's awkward to be around her and you get to know each other better if you go out and stuff like that. (like as in a boyfriend girlfriend type thing) but you know that's just my experience. Do whatever your (whatever you think with... heart, brain, something else cough cough)

um do as you wish the party went fine did it not and you come back to get dating advice from us....i feel annoyed and proud at the same time!

as for the waiting thing brilliant idea as one of my friends said "don't do something that looks good now because you'll regret it later.....

btw im a christian and my views are pretty much chrisitan views sorry if i'm no help...

now were getting a touch rude and champ u didn't need to tell us about the arse groping
an' all exept (still can't spell) you hazza i knowu like longtime


i like that one (smillie [can't spell])
phoenix

go away phoenix...lol no wonder your eggs die...lol anyways...old topic...

.... did it work out??

i havn't said anything to her. i can never get a minute alone.

Just ask her for a minute dude. I can almost guarantee she will ALWAYS be with at least 1 friend. Unless she's socially retarded and has no friends...

1 problem, i never see her like ever. only 2 seconds before every one at our lunch table is there. i think i am going to make a move soon though cause she has been sending me signals lately.